It’s funny how much crap guys will say to try to impress you or make them seem more interesting! This next “story teller” is the reason I started to blog about my experiences so…thank him…..
A few months ago I had received a message through Facebook, from a guy named Enrique. He went to high school with me (shocker), he was older then I was, and he resembled the EX!! The message was a little odd…the subject was “?” and it read “How do I know u sorry for asking that “I responded back with “Asking what? I'm confused????” 20 seconds pass and he writes “I was trying to figure out how do I remember u didn't u go out with Paco” yea I’m sooo sure, we have the same mutual friends and his default pic was with one of mine and Paco’s friend. I replied with “Yes sir for 9 yrs. we haven't been together since January” he writes “Ok cool. Me and andrew r. brother where talking bout u and I was like didn't she date Paco and so I was just wondering. So how r u and what do u do” I like how he was trying to be a smooth operator with the questions so I wrote “Oh geez hopefully is wasn't anything bad haha ekkk I've been good just working a lot and trying to stay busy! I work in a Bridal store in west Plano Dallas
I get to Gloria’s and I see him at the bar…its a little weird cause I never said a word to him in high school but all of a sudden I was meeting up with him, as I make my way to the bar I notice he looks sooooo much like my ex. He stands up and greets me, we hug then he pulls the chair out for me to sit in. The first thing he says is “wow cant believe you came” I just said “ well I didn’t have anything else going on tonight” We talk about high school, I even tell him that he resembles Paco and he kind of got upset because apparently he gets that a lot. In high school I knew my ex had a brother that went there and I always thought it was Enrique hahahaha until I actually met his brother. He then tells me that my ex is actually an acquaintance of his and they hung out last week and they were talking about me……ok I was thinking, I thought he didn’t “know who I was” now all of a sudden you and my ex are acquaintances and yall are talking about me hmmmmm. I don’t say anything and let him just talk the night away. He had made a comment about me living in Frisco and that I must have a lot of scrilla…aka money and that I was living the good life, but then he told me he was looking at houses in Frisco that start off at about $1,000,000.00 . PUH-LEASE DUDE!! He asks what type of car I drove I tell him (Jeep Liberty) then he tells me this story about how he has an Escalade but someone rear ended him and that’s why he was driving an old Buick. First of all I could care less what type of vehicle you drive, second I hate liars!! I then say “well if someone else hit you, wouldn’t your insurance cover that and wouldn’t you be in a rental?” he says “well the person who hit me didn’t have insurance so he’s just gonna pay me little by little” yeeeaaaaahhhhhh I’m so sure.
Here’s where it starts getting interesting, after the car conversation out of the blue he says “oh and if we start hanging out I don’t want you to get star struck of anything but I’m really good friends with Jason Kidd (Maverick’s), we call him Kiddy Kid so if you hear me on the phone and say that name that’s him, we hang out all the time.” Hahahahaha little did he know that me and T-New (Taurence Newman) hung out a few times and that I actually went to his house and beat him at Guitar Hero (one game) but winning is winning!! Only because my friend was dating him a few years ago but I said “oh I don’t get star struck, me and T-New hung out a few times, so I know how to act around “celebrities” he had this shocked look on his face and said “you know T-New?” I then tell him yes, my friend dated him and we hung out a few times no big deal. After that we end the night and the next days to follow I would get the text messages, the phone calls the whole she-bang. It was the first football game of the season and he asked me if I wanted to join him and his friend at a sports bar in Frisco so I said sure. I get there and the tab is completely free, his friend is a beer rep for the sports bar so everything was taken care of. A few drinks start flowing and I’m starting to feel a little tipsy. We end up kissing (GAG….DOUBLE GAG) and he kept calling me “princess” all night, I thought it was kind of cute until I heard him call every other girl “princess” at the bar.
The next day we were both off and he called me during the day and asked how I was feeling, we talk about random stuff then I say something along the lines of “hey its cute if you call other girls pet names or whatever but can you please call me by my given name” he says “oh I’m sorry princess, but I like to treat girls I’m interested in like princesses…I even call my mom princess” this doesn’t settle well with me so I said “more reason to call me by my given name…Yvonne”. We end the call and I got a text from a guy that I know and he asked if I wanted to grab dinner, the day was still early and I wanted to weight my options so I didn’t respond to him quickly, an hour or so goes by and my friend Natalie asks what I’m doing that night I say nothing really, and she said she would call me after work to discuss plans. A couple of hours go by and Enrique calls me and asks if I wanted to join him at his company happy hour…I was a little uneasy cause we really didn’t go on a first date and he already wants to introduce me to his co-workers!! EEEKKK!!! I told him that I was either gonna go to dinner with a guy or hang out with my friend whom I hadn’t seen in a long time. He got jealous and said “so are you gonna get mad if I talk to a girl at the bar?” WHAT??? I say “umm you are free to talk whom you want and when you want, you and I are NOT exclusive, I barley know you.” He didn’t like the fact that I said that and said “so are you gonna go on a date with guy or hang out with your friend?” I just said “I don’t know yet and I didn’t know I needed permission from you, I gotta go bye”
I end up going out with my girl, and on the way to her house Enrique calls me and I picked. He’s at the bar with his co-workers and he says “so you meeting with that guy for your date?” I say “relax!!! No I’m actually going to meet up with my friend.” I could tell through the phone that he was smiling and he said “aww so you ditched the guy for me?” I say “ummm don’t think for one second that you had any influence on my decision, I wanted to see my friend so don’t flatter yourself” He then tells me that all his co-workers thought I was “cute”, “adorable”, “really pretty” and I said “what are you showing them my facebook pic?” he then says “no, I showed them the pic we took at the bar” RATS!! I completely forgot about taking a picture, good thing it was before the drinks were flowing. Then he says “oh, yea and they did a background check on you and I know how many tickets you’ve gotten.” CREEPER!! I’m all about doing a background check on someone you don’t know but to actually tell the person oh hey I just did a background check on you is a little strange!!! I got about my business with my girl and it was a fun night.
The next few days are ehhhh not so good, he keeps sending me text messages and I’m not really responding to him like I did before just cause it really bothered me that he would do something like. One night I finally say “you know to be honest with you; I think you’re a cool guy but I’m not really interested in you. We can do the occasional text every now and then but you just remind me too much of my ex and I’m trying to move forward not backwards” he writes back with “its cool, I need to focus on me anyways you’re a cool girl but to say I remind you of your ex is an insult.” OOOK I don’t say anything back cause I didn’t know what to say, as I drive up to my house which was 3 minutes later I get another text saying “I thought you said looks don’t matter and that you give guys chances” yes I do give guys chances and you obviously blew yours when you did a background check on me and became a little too controlling when we weren’t even anything. I didn’t respond back to him text but I kid you not, 5 minutes later he called me and I send it straight to voice mail and he said “I was out of line with the text, I’m sorry, come up to this bar and watch the game with me” are you kidding me?!?!?!?! I didn’t go, and till this day this guy still texts me like…if I haven’t responded to the last 5/6 text probably not gonna start now….guess I………
“Should’ve said no a long time ago”
Stage 5 clinger... abort, abort! Yea, he sounded crazy. Like if you went further with him, the crazy would have progressed.
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